After that, you know exactly how he is, then you have been wasting your time and effort. You just guest by the way he treats you during the first few dates. However, when a guy who approaches to you, it is hard to tell whether he is poor or rich.
At least you can need to find a guy who is financially stable so he can pay for his own way. It does not matter how good his personality is, you don’t want to go out with such a guy. You don’t want to go out with a guy who usually forgets his wallet and has you pay for dinner, a guy who can’t afford to take you to a good restaurant you want, etc. I understand how you feel when you are looking for a wealthy guy.